Tuesday, December 17, 2019

WHO ARE YOU?

During one of his travels, Kalidasa felt very thirsty and looked around for water. He saw a woman drawing water from a well. He went up to her and asked her for water. She agreed to give him water, but asked him, “Who are you? Introduce yourself.”

Now Kalidasa thought that an ordinary village woman was not worthy of knowing who Kalidasa was. So he said, “I am a traveller.” But his lady replied, “In this world there are only 2 travellers – the Sun and the Moon. Both Rise and Set every day and keep travelling perpetually.”
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Then Kalidasa said, “Alright then, I am a guest.” The lady promptly replied, “In this world there are only 2 guests – Youth and Wealth … both are temporary and hence can only be called as guests.”

Intrigued Kalidasa said, “I am a Tolerant person (sahansheel vyakti).” Now the lady replied, “In this world only 2 truly know the meaning of Tolerance – Bhoomi (Earth) and Tree. How much ever you stamp the earth or throw stones at the tree (for the fruits), both continue to nurture us.”

Now Kalidasa was completely perplexed. He said, “Fine. I am a stubborn person (hatavaadi).” The lady smiled and said, “There are only 2 truly stubborn personalities – our nails and our hair. We keep cutting them non-stop, but they continue to grow.”

Kalidasa had been patient so far, but now in anger he said, “I am a fool”. Now the lady gave a wide smile and said, “There are only 2 kinds of fools in this world – a King who rules without having any capability or knowledge & a Minister who is a sycophant to such a King and lavishes praises on such a useless king.”

Kalidasa realised that he had been outsmarted. He fell at the feet of the lady and when he touched her feet and then got up, whom did he see? Mata Saraswati – the Goddess of Learning and Wisdom. She said, “Kalidasa, you are wise. But only if you know yourself do you become a Manushya (human being). A person without any awareness of self has not reached the pinnacle of being a Human.

Note: The Guru who recounted this story in His Pravachan said, “Children should become a Manushya & know themselves. More than teaching them how to earn more money and become rich, parents should teach them to become aware of themselves and become better Human beings.”

Thursday, December 12, 2019

Every man should act like this - SB 4.8.34

  1. When he meets a person more qualified than himself, he should be very pleased;
  2. When he meets someone less qualified than himself, he should be compassionate toward him; 
  3. When he meets someone equal to himself, he should make friendship with him. In this way one is never affected by the threefold miseries of this material world.

Wednesday, December 11, 2019

3 questions to be asked for effective goal setting

  1. are ur goals too vague n are they not specified enuf?
  2. are ur goals too grand to be achievable?
  3. are u surrounded by right ppl & are u influenced by the right ppl?

Monday, December 2, 2019

Immature Vs Mature Thinking

Immature thinking
Mature thinking
  1. I deserve
  2. I am entitled
  3. Pay my bills
  4. Take care of me
  5. Do not offend me
  6. It’s really all about me
  1. I must earn
  2. It’s about others
  3. Challenge my views
  4. I will buy my own stuff
  5. Nobody owes me anything
  6. I am responsible for my success