Most common regrets in life

• Too much time on worrying
• Not showing my real feelings to ppl i love
• Caring too much about what others think
• Not following my passion
• Not fully living in the present
• Not enough travel
• Not dare to take risks
• Too little quality time with loved ones.

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• The most attractive thing to me is effort. Someone who really wants to talk to me, wants to see me, wants to make me a part of their day.
• If you have faith in what u r doing n go to the ends of the earth to make it happen, nothing can stop u.
• A kind word costs nothing, and yet it is the most beautiful of all gifts!
• I hate the word lucky, it cheapens a lot of hard work.
• Remember that growing always feels like breaking at first.

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• There is so much more to see. If u keep searching u vll find it.
• Don’t be afraid to grow, end bad habits, leave dead end jobs, cut off unhealthy relationships n toxic frdships. Take initiative.
• Be ur own success story vth these tips. Ur life is ur story, write well , but remember to edit often.
• Reminder: just bcoz u r lonely does not mean u shd invite someone toxic back into ur life.
• If u r serious abt change, u have to go through uncomfortable situations. Stop trying to dodge the process. It’s the only way to grow.

Father's Advise

• Dear son, Do not allow society to define u. The man society vll try to mold u into is socially created, controlled, inauthentic, insensitive, womanizing, and unproductive towards the betterment of our world.
• Do not allow urself to be lured into the ways of fools n be enticed by all the materialistic things males use to shape their identities
• Believe not that success is buried in women, fame and wealth.

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• Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end.
• Let your smile be your umbrella on a rainy day
• If you only pray when you're in trouble, you're in trouble. Let's set the foundations now; i pray that Aug, Sep, Oct, Nov n Dec are all months full of growth, blessings, productivity, new doors open n opportunities.
• If the words u spoke appeared on ur skin, vld u still be beautiful?
• Make your vision so clear, that your fears become insignificant 👓

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• Failure is an event, not a person
• Sometimes we hurt more than help others
• Remember when we used to say ‘brb’ all the time when we were online? We don’t say it anymore. We no longer leave. We live here now.
• We look up at the same stars and see such different things
• The person who hurt me may never feel guilty, but i have no control over that. I only control my own actions. And i can choose peace and acceptance to move forward. Or i can choose to hold onto the pain n anguish  over what they did. But, each day, i try to choose peace n trust that the Universe vll bring good ppl n blessings my way as life goes on.

How to care for introverts

• Respect their need for privacy and to spend time on their own
• Never embarrass them in public
• Let them observe first in new situations
• Give them time to think. Don’t demand instant answers
• Don’t interrupt them.
• Give them advanced notice of expected changes in their lives
• Give them 15 min warnings to finish whatever they are doing before calling them to dinner or moving on to the next activity.
• Reprimand them privately
• Teach them new skills in privately rather than in public
• Do not push them to make lots of frds
• Respect their introversion. Don’t try to remake them into extraverts

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• School is not about learning any more it’s about passing
• Have something to keep on chasing
• "Work hard and be nice to people" - Simple but powerful words!
• Don't judge a situation you've never been in. You don't know how it feels.
• Another woman’s beauty is not the absence of ur own - things my daughter will know(4am)

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• Make your Faith Bigger Than Your Fears; Don’t let fear dictate ur life; don’t mistake fear for practicality
• The question isn't does he love you, the question is do you love yourself? You give the best advice to your friends and not take it for yourself" 🔑
• The universe is not trying to break u, my dear it’s trying to find a way to wake u up, so that u vll see what is real, n worth fighting for. It takes time to heal, but it also takes courage.
• The grass isn't greener on the other side, the grass is greener where you water it 🌿
• Not everyone u love vll appreciate u, it’s usually because they see in u what they lack. Don’t allow that to keep u from ur own succession.

Marriage advice from 1886

• Let ur love be stronger than ur hate or anger
• Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break.
• Believe the best rather than the worst
• Ppl have a way of living up or down to ur opinion of them.
• Remember that true frdship is the basis for any lasting relationship. The person u choose to marry is deserving of the courtesies n kindness u bestow on ur frds
• Please hand this down to ur children n ur grandchildren. The more things change the more they are the same

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• Ur energy speaks volumes: Whenever u r vth sone, notice how u feel. Notice if u feel guarded, sad, and uncomfortable. That’s a sign that may be u shd not spend much time vth them. If u feel light, comfortable, safe, and happy, it’s most likely a sign that this person is great for u.
• Former billionaire chuck feeney has given away over 99% of his 6.3 billion  $ to help underprivileged kids go to college. He is now worth 2 million $
• We take rejection so personally, but do not realize that’s redirection from the universe. We all live through different dimension realities mentally. Just because the ego wants what it wants does not mean “they losing out on you. Or u losing out on them” the right one vll synchronize vth ur dimension.
• I pray u quit overthinking, replaying failed scenarios, feeding self doubt n seeing the good in everyone but urself. U deserve more.
• We all have something different that we can use to make a difference…..After needing 13 lt of blood for a surgery at the age of 13, a man named James Harrison pledged to donate blood once he turned 18. It was discovered that his blood contained a rare antigen vch cured Rhesus disease. He has donated blood a record 1000 times n saved 2 million lives.

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• Slowly but surely, u vll stop caring what he is up to or who he is vth coz u vll be too busy worrying abt ur goals n ur growth. U vll be so busy living ur life, fulfilling ur dreams n reaching  new heights that anything that reminds u of him vll be a thing of the past.
• Ppl are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of - the alchemist
• Don’t let anyone treat u like pond water , u r fiji water okay :)
• Love all , trust few, everything is real but not everyone is true.
• We lose ourselves in books, we find ourselves there too 📔

10 steps to protect ur vibe

• Avoid gossip  n drama
• Let go of things u can’t ctrl
• Avoid comparing urself vth others
• Keep  ur faith larger than ur fears
• Don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right
• Don’t be afraid to spend some time alone
• Speak kindly to urself n to other ppl
• Please urself b4 trying to please others
• Stay away from ppl who drain ur energy
• Ignore any opinions that don’t enhance ur life.

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• Hugging is gud medicine: it transfers the energy n gives the person hugged an emotional lift. U need 4 hugs a day for survival, 8 for maintenance n 12 for growth. Scientists say that hugging is a form of communication coz it can say things u don’t have the words for. N the nicest thing about hug is that u usually can’t give one without getting one.
• What a strange world. We trade our days for things.
• When u have nothing to lose u have everything to gain.
• If v vld only see that all limitations are self imposed n chosen out of fear, v vld leap at once.
• We become terrified of trusting the wrong ppl, so we make the mistake of not trusting at all.

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• Don’t listen to what ppl say, watch what they do.
• Apply for that job, date that person, buy that plane ticket, move to that city, do all the things that scare u , they are worth it.
• I want to be thoroughly used up when i die, for the harder i work the more i love. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me; it is a sort of splendid torch vch i have got a hold of for the moment n i want to make it burn as brightly as possible b4 handing it on to future generations.
• The older  i get the more i realize the value of privacy. Of cultivating your circle n only letting certain ppl in. u can be open, honest n real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of ur life.
• Create no tech times in ur day n no tech zones in ur home

Never blame anyone in ur life

• The gud ppl give u happiness
• The bad ppl give u experience
• The worst ppl give u a lesson
• The best ppl give u memories

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• Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
• Love ur self like u wanted them to have loved u
• Don't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do - most of them haven't done it either
• The key is to catch urself as soon as u realize u r thinking a negative thought n switch it to sth u appreciate instead.
• Your dreams will whisper not shout

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• Good ppl are like candles; they burn themselves up to give others light.
• "Going through pain is inevitable, growing through pain is optional" 🌱
• When u can’t look on the bright side , i vll sit vth u in the dark.
• U don’t realize how poorly u have been treated in the past until someone comes along n treats u the way u shd be treated.
• Don’t be in a hurry to fall in love just bcoz u love love, u vll disappoint urself if u r not patient n understanding. Instead, take ur time to study ur partner. U need to master the art of observation, without judging ur partner, vth out trying to change the little things that u don’t like. Real love is about acceptance so take ur time learning them, be patient vth them, n never fear asking questions that vll help u understand them on a deeper level.

Advice from a tree

• Stand tall n proud
• Go out on a limb
• Remember ur roots
• Drink plenty of water
• Be content vth ur natural beauty
• Enjoy the view

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• Just coz they r ur frds n family DOES NOT mean u shd assume that they have GOOD relationship advice to share vth u. Choose wisely who go running around telling ur personal relationship business to.
• She had to walk away, not coz she didn’t love him, but coz she had to love herself more.
• 6 months from now u can be in a completely different space, mentally , spiritually n financially.  KEEP WORKING N BELIEVING IN URSELF.
• Happiness is the new rich. Inner peace is the new success. Health is the new wealth. Kindness is the new cool.
• U r not missing on ur life when u r busy getting ur life together n working towards ur goals n dreams.

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• Appreciate what u have, there are ppl who pray for things u take for granted.
• There is always a reason to smile. Find it.
• And if u r in cold world , don’t forget to be warm hearted.
• Don’t cling to a mistake just coz u spent a lot of time making it.
• Winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners. (rio2016 phelps)

Karma

• Fear Based: You reap what you sow. Karma is the consequences, both good and bad, that are brought to you based on your actions, good and bad. You are judged for your actions. 
•  Love Based : Karma is a gift that brings u lessons for your soul’s personal growth, and will continue to bring these lessons back around until u have learned them.

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• The courage to be imperfect: the fact is every single one of us is a work in progress.            We may be at different stages in life. We may have different strengths n weaknesses, but there is not a single person on the planet who has not felt vulnerable or made mistakes. Nor is there a single person who could not be better at sth in some area of life.                          While hiding ur flaws or pretending to be sth or sone u r not, can fool many ppl n many try to live their lives this way - true power comes from being ur authentic self - flaws n all - n not being  ashamed or afraid of being imperfect
• Find sone that vll introduce u to new music, art, culture, ideas, books etc, sone who vll expand ur mind n help u grow
• Stop letting ppl who do so little for u control so much of ur mind, feeling n emotions.
• A lot of ppl r still in love with their Ex.. n hurting someone else trying to force themselves to move on.
• I have seen crying  faces in a mercedes n smiling faces on a bicycle.

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• Dedication: she went through  snowstorm just to live by his side, he would not even walk through the rain; it’s imp to recognize what ppl r ready to go thru fr u. It won’t change just coz u do a lot. Observe n see the truth.
• Hold on to every genuine person u find. This generation has ppl driven by ego, money n status. As a result good souls r ruined daily. Keep ur head up n be conscious of the energy u give out n connect vth.
• Ships don’t sink bcoz of the water around them. Ships sink bcoz of the water that gets IN them. Don’t let what's happening around u get inside u n weigh u down.
• The more u learn the more u see.
• There is a fake village in the netherlands vth fake shops n restaurants that is actually a care home for elderly dementia sufferers

Life goals

1. Make $10 million  a positive impact
2. Find the perfect partner  inner peace
3. Collect more Luxury items  Beautiful moments
4. Gain recognition from peers more self confidence
5. Make my parents proud of how much i earn Happy i am
6. Get more stuff than everyone else rid of limiting beliefs

g. Pursue a career that makes a lot of money I am excited about.

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• A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end it was never bound to be n u just hav to let go
• Even if u go for it n it does not work out , u still win. U still hav the guts enough to head straight into something that frightened u. That type of bravery will take u places
• Thank u to myself  for making it this far despite wanting to give up every single day.
• Flawsome: an individual who embraces their flaws n knows they r awesome regardless.
• Awesome to make more conscious connections - make sure to chk out - MindValley

The cause of missed opportunities

1. Lack of talent
2. Lack of tools
3. Lack of technique
4. Lack of tenacity ( determination, persistence, grip)

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• What is the diff b/w i love u n i like u  beautifully answered by Buddha: when u like a flower u just pluck it, but when u love a flower  u water it daily. One who understands this understands life.
• If you stuck making a decision remember this:  There is no perfect moment. No time when u vll know enough to guarantee u vll get what u want. No time when u vll be 100 % sure that u r ready to have a child, fall in love, take a job, move cross-country, build a business, show ur work, stand in ur truth, pursue ur dream. Still at some point, imperfectly informed, vth butterflies in ur belly, u vll still need to act. To own ur unknown.
• They call us the dreamers, but we are the ones that don’t sleep.
• Why do men always leave, dad? She asked crying…..;     “Men don’t leave honey, boys do “ her dad replied.
• Common sense is not that common

Things i am entitled to

• Your affection
• Your friendship
• You
• Hard to understand in relationships that we are entitled to nothing outside ourselves via the amazing

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• 9 yr old daniel cabrera’s father died in prison, his mother makes $1.77 a day n their house burned down but he still uses the light from the local McDonald’s to do his homework every night. A photo of him went viral n ppl donated cash, school supplies n even a college scholarship.
• I am bored is a useless thing to say. U live in a great, big vast world that u have seen 0.1% of. So u shd never hav nothing to do. Learn sth, go somewhere, think abt all amazing possibilities , so u don’t get to say , ï am bored
• U do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What u need is to recognize the possibilities n challenges offered by the present moment n to embrace them vth faith, courage n hope.
• Most of our problems in life vld disappear if we stopped talking abt each other n started talking to each other. - Build a bridge, not a wall
• She barely gets any food to eat, but when she did, she offered some to the photographer.

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• Never forget those who helped u up.
• Note to self: u don’t want to do the right thing in the wrong way.
• You are not for everyone: the world is filled vth ppl who, no matter what u do, vll point blank not like u. But it is also filled vth those who vll love u fiercely. They r ur ppl. U r not for everyone n that’s ok. Talk to the ppl who can hear u.         Don’t waste ur precious time n gifts trying to convince them of ur value. They won’t ever want what u r selling. Don’t convince them to walk alongside u. U vll be wasting both ur time n theirs n vll likely inflict unnecessary wounds, vch vll take precious time to heal. U r not for them n they r not for u, politely wave them on, and continue along ur way. Sharing ur path vth someone is a sacred gift; don’t cheapen this gift by rolling urs in wrong direction.
• Some ppl r old at 18 n some r young at 90… time is a concept that is not bound by age.
• We all begin n end in the same place. Love each other along the way.

2 rules to limit stress and anxiety

• Never judge the moment (When we judge the moment we stop a curse from turning into a blessing and often don't anticipate that a blessing can turn into a curse. Know that if you don't judge you can grow more )
• Never forget rule 1 even when things are bad

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• When u r saying yes to sth, it’s imp to understand what u r saying no to.
• Happiness is when what u think, what u say n what u do r in harmony.
• A statue in Japan where ur age is not the measure  of wisdom, but rather the awareness n knowledge u have.
• When u buy from a small business, u r not helping a CEO buy a 3rd holiday home. U r helping a little girl get dance lessons, a little boy his team jersey, moms n dads put food on the table. - Shop local.
• Humanity shd be our race n love shd be our religion

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• The most beautiful moments in life are seeing a smile on a person’s face and knowing that you have contributed to his/her happiness.
• Life has taught me that you can’t control someone’s loyalty.; No matter how good you are to them, doesn’t mean they’ll treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, doesn’t mean they’ll value the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least.
• Clarify your purpose; what is the why behind everything u do? When we know this in life or design it is very empowering and the path is clear.
• One  of the most expensive things u could ever do is pay attention to the wrong people
• Love doesn’t hurt. Rejection hurts. Abuse, being ignored, complacency and indifference hurt.

Stop talking to your exs

• Hoping they will change
• Thinking it might work out the next time around
• When u miss them
• When u r lonely; learn the difference b/w being lonely and being alone
• Just coz u feel like no one else will ever love u . your feelings are a direct result of their inability to love you fully.
• Even when u know they have moved on
• When u know they r not gud for u
• Stop giving  people who hurt u a million n once chances. After one or 2 chances  n no change. They are not going to.
• Stop using “ they were my everything     “ as an excuse to not come to terms with what is now.

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• Its b/w the aching n learning; the healing
• I was told a long time ago ; it gets easier ; they are wrong ; it does not; it never gets easier; we only ever get stronger; i just thought u ought to know; oh n tk u
• He said there are only 2 days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called yesterday n the other is called tomorrow, so today is the right day to love, believe, do and mostly live.
• IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT;  Experience with people n their uncertainty has taught me that  when i hear “ i don’t know what i want” it’s best give that person space. Sometimes, this means ending the relationship n letting the person figure out what they DO want without hurting me in  the process; without me trying to force my worth down their throat to “make them see”. I refuse to let anyone’s uncertainty make me feel UNCERTAIN about myself. I don’t want to grow attached to someone who isn’t trying to figure themselves out because if someone can confuse you, they can manipulate and use you. Horacio Jones  # I am the love of my life     
• The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life, n  make u see the sun where u once saw clouds, the people that believed in you so much, you start to believe in YOU too. The people that love u , simply for being YOU. the once in a lifetime kind of people.

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• Forgive anyone who caused you  pain or harm; keep in mind that forgiving is not for others. It is for you. Forgiving is not forgetting. It is remembering without anger. It frees up your power, heals your body, mind and spirit. Forgiveness opens up a pathway to a new place of peace where you can persist despite what has happened to you.
• Walk towards the good in life and one day you will arrive.
• I gave wrong people the right pieces of me
• Relationships are harder now; bcoz conversations became texting, arguments became phone calls, feelings became subliminal messages, sex became easy, the word “love” is used out of context, insecurities became a way of thinking, getting jealous became a habit, trust is hard to come by, being hurt became natural and leaving became the only option. Sad but true, so if you have something that’s worth it, don’t take it for granted, fight for it and don’t let it go.
• I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from the things not meant for me.

Stop allowing someone from your past control your present

• I once read a quote by Mary oliver somewhere, n now i think of it when  i am thinking about past relationships
• Someone i loved once gave me a box full of darkness, it took me years to understand that this too, was a gift
• You have been through darkness and you will be stronger for it. You are important. You are capable of loving n being loved. U deserve great things. U r enuf , it’s time to move on. U can do it.

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• Whatever the present moment contains, embrace it as if u had chosen it yourself
• Whatever we think about and thank about we bring about
• There is a story behind every person. There is a reason why they are the way they are. They are not just like that bcoz they want to. Something in the past created them, and sometimes it is impossible to fix them.
• Don't look to be completed. You're already complete. (From Milk & Honey by Rupi Kaur); i don’t want to have you to fill the empty parts of me; i want to be full on my own; i want to be so complete i could light a whole city and then i want to have you coz the 2 of us combined could set it on fire
• Change the stories you tell yourself ( Can i do it?  To I can do it)

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• If i got everything i ever wanted in life, i would never be in the incredible place that i am today. It’s ok to not get what you want.
• Don't put your happiness in someone else's pocket ; Be with someone who makes you happy
• Be patient for big things and impatient for the small things ;No great thing is created suddenly; It takes time to build a relationship , a career, a house. If we try to speed the process up, we are likely to become frustrated. Worse, we may build something that is less than what we have hoped for. As i put together the pieces of my life, i recognize that i cannot --& should not -- hurry the important things. I want whatever i build to be sturdy n long-lasting.
• Be confident; Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others n wishing to be something we are not; Everybody has their own strengths n weaknesses, and it is only when you accept everything you are - and aren’t - that you will truly succeed.
• Sometimes it’s like people are a million times more beautiful to you in your mind. It’s like you see them through a special lens - but maybe if it’s how you see them, that’s how they really are.

Book hangover

• The inability to start a new book coz u r still living in the last book’s world
• The inability to function at work/school coz u were up all night binge- reading

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• If love can fade, then so can pain.
• When you learn how much u r worth u vll stop giving ppl discounts
• I’d rather spend half my life searching for true happiness instead of spending all of it pretending to have found it
• REPEAT AFTER ME: My current situation is not my final destination
• Do the work: a child has no trouble believing the unbelievable, nor does the genius or the madman. It’s only u n i, vth our big brains n tiny hearts, who doubt n overthink n hesitate.

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• Lets not try to figure out everything at once.
• Be very careful about what u think, ur thoughts run ur life.
• Don’t use ur mouth to tell lies, don’t ever say things that are not true.
• Keep ur eyes focused on what is right, keep looking straight ahead to what is good
• Did you know? For those who have trouble sleeping researchers say that 1 week of camping, without electronics, resets our biological body clock n synchronizes our melatonin hormones with sunrise n sunset

Doesn't need to be Mother's Day to appreciate mothers

• At 6 yrs “Mommy, i love you”
• At 10 - mom whatever
• 16 - my mom is so annoying
• 18 - i wanna leave this house
• 25 - mom you were right
• 30 - i wanna go to mom’s house
• 50 - i do not want to lose my mom
• 70 - i would give up everything for my mom to be here with me.

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• U r the books u read , da movies u watch, da  music u listen to, da ppl u spend time with, da conversations u engage in, choose wisely what u feed ur mind.
• Just bcoz one person didn’t appreciate u , it doesn't mean that u r not worthy of being appreciated. Just bcoz one person took advantage of ur gud heart, it doesn’t mean that having a gud heart is wrong. It means that dey lost a good-hearted person like u. Dey shd regret losing u. U shd not regret having a gud heart.
• U know u r meant for greater things. Stop playing small. Stop settling for comfortable. Live a bigger, better life, n be conscious of that everyday.
• It’s gonna get harder b4 it gets easier, but it will get better, u just gotta make it thru hard stuff first.
• Dis morning, let go of everything u didn’t do right, the negative things ppl have said, n focus on all u r becoming.

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• It takes a 24/7 mindset to replace a 9 - 5 job. R u ready?
• What it means to be alive - i realized that every time i failed.
• I think i fall in love a little bit vth anyone who shows me their soul. This world is so guarded n fearful. I appreciate rawness so much.
• I have got 99 problems n 86 of them are completely made up scenarios in my head that i am stressing about for absolutely no logical reason.
• What is meant for u, vll reach u even if it is beneath 2 mountains, And what is not meant for u, won’t reach u even if it is b/w ur 2 lips.

How to be happy

• Enjoy simplicity
• Smile as much as possible
• Live for today
• Love each other
• Watch the sunset
• Read hundreds of books
• Listen to great music
• Love yourself
• Learn from your mistakes
• Understand no one is perfect
• Eat ice cream in summer
• Build a snow fort
• Act like a kid again
• Take nothing for granted
• Live up-to your expectations

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• I just took the 2016 SATS tests, i failed. 25% in maths, 40% in english; Kids u don’t need to know what a modal verb or a subordinating conjuctive is to get where u want to go in life. U need ideas + passion - so go on adventures , dream BIG n dont worry about other people.
• Goergia girl ( Daliyah Marie Arana ) who has read 1k books at age 4 ,visits library of congress , becomes honorary librarian
• Tomorrow: a mystical land where 99% of all human productivity, motivation and achievements stored.
• Grab a glass plate n throw it on the ground. - okay done. Did it break? Yes.. Now say sorry to it.. -Sorry. Did it go back to the way it was before? - No. Do you understand?
• The rich would rather educated than entertained. As corely writes “88% of the rich devote 30 minutes or more each day to self education or self improvement reading. Most did not read for entertainment. The rich read to acquire or maintain knowledge.

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• Some people will never support you, because they are afraid of what you might become.
• U r dumb, if u think partying n random hookups is better than cuddling n eating chips n dip with someone u love until u fall asleep.
• You. not wanting me. Was the beginning of me, wanting myself. Thank you. - the hurt.
• A malawian teenager who taught himself how to build a windmill out of junk n bring power to his village. He then went on to build a second, larger windmill to power irrigation pumps. He did this all from books he read in the library.
• 21/90 rule: it takes 21 days to create a habit, it takes 90 days to create a lifestyle.

How to kill it on social media

ppl carving a living out of fb, snapchat, twitter n utube - know how they do it

• Be shameless
• Be on all the time
• Keep your posts brief
• Know ur audienc
• Be urself
• Keep it simple
• Don’t over tweet
• Find ur niche n do it well
• Be selective
• Involve ur followers
• Don’t go quiet
• Don’t take urself too seriously

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• Don’t chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing n work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you and stay.
• Integrity is courage over comfort; choosing what is right over what is fun, fast or easy; and choosing to practice our values rather than simply professing them.
• That’s how you live; you cry, you ache, u hurt, u can’t breathe, that’s how u move forward
• Enzo ferrari told a man “you may be able to drive a tractor but you will never be able to handle a ferrari properly” the man was so pissed he vowed to create a perfect car, his name ferrucio lamborghini.
• The easiest way to feel amazing is to look for things to be grateful for.

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• Learning how to leave people alone and go on with your life is a needed skill. You must master it.
• A teacher from new jersey surprised her students with motivating messages on their desks before an exam.- Remember there is no elevator to success, you must take the stairs, you got this. -  Learning is your superpower, remember, never stop trying n never stop growing ur brain.
• U know what is sexy? A real conversation.
• One of the most powerful art pieces from burning man: a sculpture of 2 adults after a disagreement, sitting with their backs to each other. Yet, the inner child in both of them simply wants to connect. Age has many beautiful gifts but one who could live without is the pride n resentment we hold onto when we have conflicts with others. The forgiving free spirit of children is our true nature. Remember this when you feel stubborn.
• My mother told me, if you are a soldier, u will become a general, if you are a monk, u vll become the pope” instead i was a painter n became picasso.

Its ok

• To protect my energy, it is ok to change my mind
• To protect my energy, it is ok to cancel a commitment
• To protect my energy, it is ok to take a day off
• To protect my energy, it is ok to not answer that call
• To protect my energy, it is ok to not share myself
• To protect my energy, it is ok to do nothing
• To protect my energy, it is ok to be alone
• To protect my energy, it is ok to sleep in
• To protect my energy, it is ok to speak up
• To protect my energy, it is ok to move on
• To protect my energy, it is ok to let go
• To protect my energy, it is ok to change

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• Love as an offering: to love is not to possess the other person or to consume all their attention and love. To love is to offer the other person joy and a balm for their suffering. This capacity is what we have to learn to cultivate.
• It’s not your job to like me, it’s mine.
• If speaking kindly to plants helps them grow , imagine what speaking kindly to humans can do.
• In the end you will be more disappointed by what you didn’t do than what u did do
• The bad news- Nothing lasts forever; The good news - Nothing lasts forever.

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• A change may be just around the corner.
• Be the type of person that not only turns heads, but turns souls as well.
• We say we will remember, but then we forget, we say we will forget , but then we remember.
• Work hard, talk less.do what you know is right. Learn from your mistakes. Build people up. Laugh often. Stop complaining. Invest in yourself. Dream big. Plan ahead. Love unconditionally.
• Most people don’t ever start because they don’t want to be seen starting at the bottom. Don’t be most people.

Love and together

So many people are together but not in love, so many are in love, but not together.

 

Boy	Girl
I saw her today It seems like its been forever She looks better than before I asked how things are going i ‘d pick her over any girl I can’t look at her without crying I told her i missed her I meant it I love her I held her for the last time Then i went home and cried I lost her	I saw him today I wonder if he still cares I could not stop staring at him I asked about his new girlfriend I bet he is happy now He would not even look at me He didn’t mean it He doesn’t mean it He loves his new girlfriend He gave me a friendly hug Then i went home and cried I love him

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• Don’t worry if you are not where you want to be yet. Great things take time.
• Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come? - Rumi.
• The lesson - not everyone you love will stay, not everyone you trust will be loyal , some people only exist as examples of what to avoid.
• Relationships end bcoz once they have u, they stop doing the things it took to get u.
• 10 years from now, make sure u can say that u chose ur life, u didn’t settle for it.

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• If you walked away from a toxic, negative, abusive, one-sided, dead-end low vibrational relationship or friendship - You won.
• No one is you and that is your power
• Concentrate on what you are doing. No distractions. Centre yourself( i say centre Krishna). This is your time.
• Why do we only rest in peace? Why don’t we live in peace too?
• Don’t let them live in your mind if they don’t exist in your life.

3 tips for today

• Be passionate about something bigger than yourself. It inspires growth.
• Be proactive about your dreams. Stop waiting. Get started.
• Be patient with people. Give the love you wish to receive.

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• May be right now you are not supposed to be in a relationship with anyone else but yourself. May be this is your time for you and you are supposed to be enjoying it for exactly what it is - your time, for you.
• Find someone who wants to invest in you, learn from you, see you win, support your vision & fall in love with you daily. - it’s none other than Krishna for me.
• Self reflection is a meeting you never cancel.
• They say don’t look back, but sometimes it is important to see how far you have come.
• Muhammed ali gave his first olympic gold medal to a high school teacher who said - you ain’t ever gonna be nothing.- don’t let others opinion become your reality.

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• Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.
• The days you don’t want to are the days you really have to.
• Your intentions shape your world. Before you go to sleep tonight, use this space to set your intentions for the rest of the week, month, or year. Share what you are currently excited about or working toward. Describe the kind person you want to become. Put that creative energy into the universe. Tag a friend who will support you.
• Fun fact- a lot of what weighs you down is not your to carry.
• Whenever you are in a negative state, there is something in you that wants the negativity, that perceives it as pleasurable, or that believes it will get you what you want.

4 simple rules

• Wake up early.
• Work harder than you think you did yesterday.
• Never go more than 3 days without exercise.
• Make time to read everyday.

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• Most of us never get to live our dreams because we are too busy living our fears.
• Despite how open, peaceful and loving you attempt to be, people can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves.
• So we have inspectors of inspectors and people making instruments for inspectors to inspect inspectors. The true business of people should be to go back to school and think about whatever it was they were thinking about before somebody came along and told them they had to earn a living.
• When your world moves too fast and you lose yourself in the chaos, introduce yourself to each color of the sunset. Reacquaint yourself with the earth beneath your feet. Thank the air that surrounds you with every breath you take. Find yourself in the appreciation of life.
• Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be - energies are contagious.

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• Supporting another's success won’t ever dampen yours.
• People are capable, at any time in their lives , of doing what they dream of.
• Support your friends. Listen to their ideas. Go to their events. Share their post. Celebrate in their victories and remind them of their importance after their failures. A little support can go a very long way in someone’s life.
• What if i told you 10 years from now, your life would be the exactly same? I doubt you would be happy. So, why are you afraid of change?
• Don’t bottle up your thoughts. You will never know how it could change the world.

Growth Vs Fixed

Growth Mindset	Fixed mindset
Failure is an opportunity to grow I can learn to do anything i want Challenges help me to grow My effort and attitude determine my abilities Feedback is constructive I am inspired by the success of others I like to try new things	Failure is the limit of my abilities I can either do it or i can’t &          I am either good at it or I’m not I don’t like to be challenged My abilities are unchanging &             My potential is predetermined Feedback and criticism are personal When i’m frustrated i give up I stick to what i know

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• You will never influence the world by trying to be like it.
• Someday you will look back and understand why it all happened the way it did.
• Hardships often prepare ordinary people for extraordinary Destiny - C S Lewis
• You never look good, trying to make someone else look bad.
• The less you respond to negative people the more peaceful your life will become.

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• People who defend your name when you’re not around are the most loyal friends you could ever get.
• If you are not willing to love her, do not put dents on her heart that influence her to believe that she is hard to love. That is cruel.
• Don't worry about what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. - howard thurman.
• “Going with the flow” doesn’t mean you don’t know where you are going. It means you are open to multiple ways of getting there. It also means you are open to changing your destination, clinging more to the essence of your goal than to the particulars. You acknowledge that letting go and modifying your plans is part of the process. Going with the flow means you are aware of an energy that is larger than your small self and you are open to working with it, not against it.
• I can buy anything i want but i can’t buy my time - Use your time wisely.

Ÿou are so quiet” - everyone

• I refuse to gossip which i feel like it constitutes 70% of human conversation
• Silence is beautiful
• Small talk bores me quickly
• I’m not just going to talk for the sake of talking
• Even if i’m quiet i still feel as if i’m more open and friendly than most. Social barriers mean nothing to me
• I’m involved in my inner world more so than the external one

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• People say a lot so i watch what they actually do.
• Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
• Being positive won’t guarantee success, but being negative will guarantee failure.
• We have to develop spiritual stamina so when a problem occurs we don’t react out of emotion but out of wisdom.
• There’s like a million different ways to say ï love you” - Put your seatbelt on -  watch your step - get some rest - you just gotta listen.

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• Never in the history of calming down has anyone ever calmed down by being told to calm down.
• I used to admire people with luxuries , now admire people with inner peace.
• Detachment is not that you should own nothing, but that nothing should own you.
• Let them judge you - let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you. Their opinions are not your problems. You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity. No matter what they do or say, don’t you doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth. Just keep shining like you always do.
• There are libraries around the world where you can check out humans as a living book and listen to their stories.

10 things that require zero talent

• Being on time
• Work ethic
• Effort
• Body language
• Energy
• Attitude
• Passion
• Being coachable
• Doing extra
• Being prepared

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• We don’t have wifi, talk to each other pretend it’s 1995. ( a note in a restaurant)
• You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to your best life. You are not in competition with anyone else. Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
• We are all wired to love and be compassionate. No one is born hating another person. So if you can learn to hate, you can be taught to love.
• When writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen.
• You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.

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• I am convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non- successful ones is pure perseverance.
• Overthinking: the art of creating problems that don’t exist.
• Mom: i took 9 months to form your heart, do not let anyone break it in 15 seconds.
• Bibliophile: a lover of books - one who loves to read, admire and collect books
• Life is kind of like a party : you invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late, But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time , they are not even the ones who made the mess. These people are your true friends. They are the ones who really matter.

Ego vs Higherself

Ego	Higher self
I am a victim of circumstance I live in scarcity, there is never enough I am alive temporarily and that is scary I am in competition with the world It’s complicated	I create my own reality I live in abundance, there is always enough. I am alive temporarily and that is awesome I am in harmony with the world I am happy