Marriage advice from 1886

• Let ur love be stronger than ur hate or anger
• Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break.
• Believe the best rather than the worst
• Ppl have a way of living up or down to ur opinion of them.
• Remember that true frdship is the basis for any lasting relationship. The person u choose to marry is deserving of the courtesies n kindness u bestow on ur frds
• Please hand this down to ur children n ur grandchildren. The more things change the more they are the same

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• Ur energy speaks volumes: Whenever u r vth sone, notice how u feel. Notice if u feel guarded, sad, and uncomfortable. That’s a sign that may be u shd not spend much time vth them. If u feel light, comfortable, safe, and happy, it’s most likely a sign that this person is great for u.
• Former billionaire chuck feeney has given away over 99% of his 6.3 billion  $ to help underprivileged kids go to college. He is now worth 2 million $
• We take rejection so personally, but do not realize that’s redirection from the universe. We all live through different dimension realities mentally. Just because the ego wants what it wants does not mean “they losing out on you. Or u losing out on them” the right one vll synchronize vth ur dimension.
• I pray u quit overthinking, replaying failed scenarios, feeding self doubt n seeing the good in everyone but urself. U deserve more.
• We all have something different that we can use to make a difference…..After needing 13 lt of blood for a surgery at the age of 13, a man named James Harrison pledged to donate blood once he turned 18. It was discovered that his blood contained a rare antigen vch cured Rhesus disease. He has donated blood a record 1000 times n saved 2 million lives.

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• Slowly but surely, u vll stop caring what he is up to or who he is vth coz u vll be too busy worrying abt ur goals n ur growth. U vll be so busy living ur life, fulfilling ur dreams n reaching  new heights that anything that reminds u of him vll be a thing of the past.
• Ppl are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of - the alchemist
• Don’t let anyone treat u like pond water , u r fiji water okay :)
• Love all , trust few, everything is real but not everyone is true.
• We lose ourselves in books, we find ourselves there too 📔

10 steps to protect ur vibe

• Avoid gossip  n drama
• Let go of things u can’t ctrl
• Avoid comparing urself vth others
• Keep  ur faith larger than ur fears
• Don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right
• Don’t be afraid to spend some time alone
• Speak kindly to urself n to other ppl
• Please urself b4 trying to please others
• Stay away from ppl who drain ur energy
• Ignore any opinions that don’t enhance ur life.

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• Hugging is gud medicine: it transfers the energy n gives the person hugged an emotional lift. U need 4 hugs a day for survival, 8 for maintenance n 12 for growth. Scientists say that hugging is a form of communication coz it can say things u don’t have the words for. N the nicest thing about hug is that u usually can’t give one without getting one.
• What a strange world. We trade our days for things.
• When u have nothing to lose u have everything to gain.
• If v vld only see that all limitations are self imposed n chosen out of fear, v vld leap at once.
• We become terrified of trusting the wrong ppl, so we make the mistake of not trusting at all.

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• Don’t listen to what ppl say, watch what they do.
• Apply for that job, date that person, buy that plane ticket, move to that city, do all the things that scare u , they are worth it.
• I want to be thoroughly used up when i die, for the harder i work the more i love. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me; it is a sort of splendid torch vch i have got a hold of for the moment n i want to make it burn as brightly as possible b4 handing it on to future generations.
• The older  i get the more i realize the value of privacy. Of cultivating your circle n only letting certain ppl in. u can be open, honest n real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of ur life.
• Create no tech times in ur day n no tech zones in ur home

Never blame anyone in ur life

• The gud ppl give u happiness
• The bad ppl give u experience
• The worst ppl give u a lesson
• The best ppl give u memories

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• Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
• Love ur self like u wanted them to have loved u
• Don't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do - most of them haven't done it either
• The key is to catch urself as soon as u realize u r thinking a negative thought n switch it to sth u appreciate instead.
• Your dreams will whisper not shout

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• Good ppl are like candles; they burn themselves up to give others light.
• "Going through pain is inevitable, growing through pain is optional" 🌱
• When u can’t look on the bright side , i vll sit vth u in the dark.
• U don’t realize how poorly u have been treated in the past until someone comes along n treats u the way u shd be treated.
• Don’t be in a hurry to fall in love just bcoz u love love, u vll disappoint urself if u r not patient n understanding. Instead, take ur time to study ur partner. U need to master the art of observation, without judging ur partner, vth out trying to change the little things that u don’t like. Real love is about acceptance so take ur time learning them, be patient vth them, n never fear asking questions that vll help u understand them on a deeper level.