Stop allowing someone from your past control your present

• I once read a quote by Mary oliver somewhere, n now i think of it when  i am thinking about past relationships
• Someone i loved once gave me a box full of darkness, it took me years to understand that this too, was a gift
• You have been through darkness and you will be stronger for it. You are important. You are capable of loving n being loved. U deserve great things. U r enuf , it’s time to move on. U can do it.